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REAL ME (5x02)
A review by Mikelangelo "MikeJer" Marinaro

Writer(s): David Fury
Director: David Grossman
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Dawn has finally arrived. Across the internet fans can be found mostly disliking this event. A popular character, Dawn is not. Instead of coming out and just saying what I think of Dawn, I'll just let the reviews speak my opinion. Here, however, Dawn is intended very much by the writers to be this mysteriously annoying figure in Buffy's life. This is a really good episode that not only shows us what the Scooby Gang is like with Dawn's sly integration, but also it gives us a good opportunity to get inside this character's head. Additionally, we get an update on what Harmony's been up to for the last year. This turns out to be mostly amusing, but also occassionaly a bit boring. Want more specifics? Lets go then!

The episode opens up with a scene that picks up right where "Buffy vs. Dracula" (5x01) left off: renewing Buffy's training. I really enjoyed seeing Buffy trying to tap deep into spiritual Slayer powers and instincts she never even knew were there before. Dawn then comes in and ruins everything, annoyingly sticking her head right over Buffy and demanding to leave. I love how the camera is positioned so we get to see Dawn from Buffy's perspective. Buffy's expression here is priceless.

The post-credits sequence where we see an ordinary morning in the Summers' home is equally illuminating. I love the realistic feel to this whole segment where the three of them, Buffy, Joyce, and Dawn, act as a normal family. In most genre shows whenever the writers take extraordinary characters and put them in ordinary situations, they often feel very out of place and not real, or just plain goofy. These characters are so much different though. We see them in a run-of-the-mill situation like getting breakfast and talking about their day and it feels real. That's the magic of Whedon at work again: characters that have unusual challenges but have the same emotions and problems (even if they're in disguise) as the rest of us. However, there's nothing supernatural about this particular interaction at all. This sequence makes me feel cozy with the characters, like I'm right there with them. Pure awesome.

Riley comes over to hang out with Buffy in this sequence, but she failed to tell him that she actually planned a Slayer shopping session with Giles. Riley says he's not bothered by the inconvenience, and I don't think he is put out much here, but this is the beginning of a growing stream of these instances of Buffy leaving Riley out of the loop. Eventually it starts to get to him, which culminates in his departure (see "Into the Woods" [5x10]).

I find Dawn's voiceovers, which permeate the entire episode, very effective in getting into her state of mind. Right from the start it's established that she feels alone, left out, and that Buffy gets special attention because she's the Slayer. It's also fun how the writers play around with your expectations. "No one knows who I really am. The real me." While all this dialogue could represent that she knows what she is and that she doesn't belong there, we know in retrospect that she's just talking about herself and doesn't actually know anything. That's really smart writing. Later on, Dawn's face is covered with ice cream and she has her monologue about Xander seeing her "like a woman." This is painful and frustrating to listen to for someone of Dawn's age, but at the same I understand that the writers originally intended for her to be a lot younger. Here we see Dawn at her most childish state, because I think the writers started writing her closer to her supposed age in subsequent episodes.

While many people just state "Dawn is annoying" and leave it at that, I personally like to try to see where a character is coming from. All the characters, not just my favorite ones (they're all favorites to an extent anyway). So when looking at Dawn here in retrospect, I can't help but feel for her because she's the product of a bunch of monks. The way I see it, how she changes from this point on is all that's important when looking at her, because all her memories are fake. I'll get a lot more into this when reviewing "No Place Like Home" (5x05). Knowing this makes just about every one of these early Dawn scenes even more memorable -- they're her first real memories in life. So when Buffy gets really angry at Dawn for accidentally inviting Harmony in, I have some extra sympathy for everyone including Dawn. Xander and Riley don't seem to think it's as big of a deal, but I certainly see Buffy's point. It's funny that Dawn hasn't lived in that house for all those years, everyone just thinks she has. I'd imagine it's different to actually experience making a mistake rather than just remembering certain lessons.

At the Magic Box I really enjoyed the Tara/Dawn bonding scene. These two can relate because Tara isn't really part of the Scooby Gang either. The two of them thumb restling is really cute/touching as well. Tara later tells Willow that the "outsider feeling" is tough, but Willow quickly catches on that Tara isn't talking just about Dawn, but also about how she feels about herself in relation to the Scoobies. This is a recurring thread early on this season that gets addressed in Tara's 'acceptance' episode, "Family" (5x06).

I was really impressed with the little hints that Buffy can physically feel something is off with Dawn. It's annoying Buffy that, just recently, Dawn's "always around," like Buffy isn't used to having that added stress always around her. This is a cool way to acknowledge that, physically, she's not used to having to deal with Dawn being there. It is new even though mentally she thinks Dawn's always been there.

Anyway, as the flow of this day continues, we see Buffy, who has Giles driving her, forced to take Dawn with her to the Magic Box to get Slayer training supplies. This creates yet another very character-charged interaction that really impresses. Dawn keeps annoying, Giles is trying to impart his wisdom and is having problems with automatic transmission, and there's classical music on his radio! It's important to note that Giles admits that not even he is fully prepared to explore the realm they are about to explore. Buffy reassures him she's completely committed to doing this.

Once they arrive at the shop, we really begin to see that Giles realizes he is hanging around in Sunnydale for a while, and he's thinking about establishing a future here. He gets a stylish new red car and then gawks at the profit margins for a newly ownerless Magic Box. I like how Buffy cuts off Giles mid-sentence and reminds him that the place is a "death trap." Giles' insistent interest in the shop is really fun to watch. "Impressive square footage!" While he is very much ready to go back to England, Buffy takes first priority. It's not until S6 that he realizes the more he hangs around taking care of things for Buffy, the harder it will be to be able to start learning to handle things on her own. The absence of Joyce is what creates this situation. Right now, though, Giles is going to do all he can for Buffy and put aside some of his wishes to go home.

The other stuff going on in this episode, and where it loses some points, is in the Harmony material. Now, don't get me wrong. I do like Harmony and find her often entertaining. The idea of her getting her own gang is also certainly amusing. The problem is that the episode focuses a bit on her and she just can't hold an episode by herself. The good news is that there is some genuine comedy here, which makes this still entertaining enough. I especially loved how they remembered Harmony's unicorn affection and are allowing her to explore herself as a vampire. Harmony's excessive stupidity after her group captures Dawn gets a little boring to watch after a while though. Her group slowly gets fed up with her, but them being pretty stupid too, it's not much better. So the Harmony comedy is light fun but doesn't really have the same level of substance and quality as the rest of the episode.

The last bit to mention is how Buffy beats up Spike for information on Harmony's whereabouts. I love how she punches him in the nose again just for the fun of it. And thus continues Spike's frustrations at not being able to respond to her physical abuse (which we know turns him on in some ways). The episode ends with a wonderful ominous warning at the end from Dawn in her journal entry. "She just thinks I'm her dumb little sister. Boy is she in for a surprise." I so love that this statement has nothing to do with her just appearing recently. Back to the great writing!


- Minor Pros/Cons (+/-)
+  Crazy guy making reference to Little Miss Muffet (see "Graduation Day Pt. 2" [3x22]) and giving the audience its first real hint that Dawn hasn't just appeared for no reason.
+  Dawn's huge crush on Xander. This just feels...right somehow. Then Anya comes in, "hello there little girl!" Haha.
+  Seriously. The big smiley face on Harmony's threat letter thrown through the window is awesome.
+  Xander laughing at Harmony when she threatens Buffy at the door. Haha. Then later when Buffy hears about it, she starts laughing uncontrollably too. Fun!
+  Spike also making fun of Harmony's gang. I like their little chat. It's amusing that Spike's guess of how stupid Harmony's plan probably is actually becomes Harmony's new plan.
+  Dawn tells the Andrew vamp that if he touches her Buffy will kill him. I love how it happens almost immediately.

- Quotes
DAWN V.O.:  Oh, scary vampires, they die from a splinter.

RILEY:  "I'm here to violate your firstborn" never goes over with parents. Not sure why.

BUFFY:  Are you mad at me?
RILEY:  Oh, no, not at all. I'm plotting your death, but in a happy way. (Smiles)
BUFFY:  Good.

GILES:  I'm just not used to this automatic transmission. I-I loathe this sitting here, not contributing. No, i-it's not working out.
BUFFY:  Giles, are you breaking up with your car?
GILES:  Well, it did seduce me, all red and sporty!
BUFFY:  Little two-door tramp.

GILES:  Perhaps, as I am to act as your Watcher again, a modicum of respect might be in order.
BUFFY:  Do I hafta?
GILES:  I'm serious, Buffy, there's going to be far less time for the sort of flighty, frivolous-
DAWN:  (pointing) Hey, there's Willow and Tara!
GILES:  Ooh, they haven't seen my new car.
WILLOW:  Hey Giles, sharp wheels!
TARA:  The rest of the car's nice too.

DAWN V.O.:  She [Tara] and Willow are both witches. They do spells and stuff, which is so much cooler than slaying. I told Mom one time I wished they'd teach me some of the things they do together. A-and then she got really quiet and made me go upstairs.

BUFFY:  So I won't be taking drama with you.
WILLOW:  What? You have to, you promised!
BUFFY:  Well, I know, but Giles said that it just was-
WILLOW:  The hell with Giles.
GILES:  I can hear you, Willow.

BUFFY:  She didn't see him! A foot, maybe. A dead foot, which is bad, okay, but hello, I see dead stuff all the time, and you don't see Mom shielding me.
RILEY:  So you want your mother to give you space to be a slayer, and shield you from it at the same time.
BUFFY:  Thank you, Logic Boy. Did I mention this is a rant? Sense really has no place in it.

ANYA:  Oh, crap. Look at this! Now I'm burdened with a husband and several tiny pink children, more cash than I can reasonably manage...
XANDER:  That means you're winning.
ANYA:  Really?
XANDER:  Yes. Cash equals good.
ANYA:  Ooh! I'm so pleased! Can I trade in the children for more cash?

HARMONY:  I'm not gonna make the same mistakes you did. I've been doing my homework, reading books and stuff.
SPIKE:  What, Evil for Dummies ? Look at you, all puffed up and mighty, thinking you're the new Big Bad. It's, uh ... well, let's face it, it's adorable.

BUFFY:  Harmony, when you tried to be head cheerleader, you were bad. When you tried to chair the homecoming committee, you were really bad. But when you try to be bad ... you suck.

BUFFY:  Giles, are you sure about this?
GILES:  Why wouldn't I be?
BUFFY:  Well, aside from the fact that most magic shop owners in Sunnydale have the life expectancy of a Spinal Tap drummer ... and, have you ever run a store before?
GILES:  I was a librarian for years. This is exactly the same, except people pay for the things they never return.

- Score
80/100
B
A bit flawed, but otherwise very good. There's a lot of intelligence, character relevance, and/or fun here, but a few nagging problems keep it from rising higher.

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- Comments (13)

1.Nix   Jul 16 2007
I was frankly shocked to hear that Dawn was widely hated, until I discovered that some of my friends hated her too.

The rule seems to be simple: if you had a younger sister with a year-or-five age gap, and you like *her* now, then you'll like Dawn (probably out of woolly nostalgia). Otherwise you'll probably hate her because she's so annoying.

i.e. this is a very realistic portrayal of a teenage girl. It takes enormous mental effort to realise that Dawn's annoying as *well* as cute...

2.mikejer   Jul 16 2007
Well, I don't have have any siblings at all, and I don't hate Dawn. So it doesn't work for me. Then again, I'm different than most people. So we'll just say that's why. ;)

3.Austin   Aug 28 2007
Well, there is a twelve year gap between me and my younger sister(same parents too!) and frankly I think she is adorable, but then she isn't a teen yet and I won't be around the house when she is so I guess that doesn't really count. Non-the-less, I really like Dawn, mostly because of all she goes through, and being tossed into the middle of evil-central, while all the other characters have had four years to process it. I think she has a very strong personality, which really shows up in season seven when Buffy is preoccupied with he potentials, and then how she handles herself not being a potential (don't remember the specific episode). I think a lot of what she brings to the show is how Buffy or any of the rest of the gang would have grown up living on the hellmouth had they been aware of its presence and yet not been apart of the scoobies. I'm glad they try to keep her innocence intact because it throws into sharp contrast how much of a normal childhood and adolescence Buffy lost when she became a slayer. Ok I've rambled long enough.

4.jun   Nov 5 2007
Another bit of foreshadowing here that wasn't mentioned:

When Tara is talking to Willow about the outsider feeling, Willow gives her a hug. Tara's facing away from her as Willow says "You're one of the good guys." Tara's expression falls and she pulls away, clearly thinking of her demon secret.

5.gabrielleabelle   Nov 11 2007
I don't mind Dawn in S5. I understand that she's supposed to be annoying at times cause of her "newness" (and cause they were intending her to be younger). In S6, though, I cringe every time she comes on the screen. She falls into a pit of teenage whineyness and annoys the crap out of me. Plus, she's not central to the story arc in S6, so she's left a little purposeless. But she significantly improves in S7. They finally let Dawn grow up and it makes a world of difference.

6.buffyholic   Nov 20 2007
This episode is a personal favorite of mine. Character development, Harmony and Dawn. Amazing.
I have to say that I too don´t understand all the Dawn hate. I think Dawn is a wonderful character and an amazing addition to the series and to this season.

7.Jaden   Jan 27 2008
actually this is the only season where i truly liked dawn. dawn really irritated me in the sixth season with her whole "i feel so lonely" drama which i couldnt truly understand becuase things seemed no different than before. even worse was the seventh season becuase dawn seemed to have no purpose AT ALL in that and had it not been for a few stand alone episodes, 'him' and 'potential', i would have forgotten about her completely. i thought her character progression in the fifth season was spot on and i would have loved to see more of that in the other seasons.

8.MsFeasance   Apr 15 2008
A further bit of foreshadowing/cross-series continuity: Xander and Anya play the game of Life, and Anya complains about being "burdened with a husband and several tiny pink children," a future she'll accept in The Gift.
Years later, in Seth Green's series Robot Chicken, there's a sketch about the Game of Life ,which I gratuitously mentioned so I could link to the video.


9.Steph   Jul 7 2008
I just wanted to point out a specific scene in this episode that seemed to hold a little more symbolism to me than what it really appears.

Buffy and the gang are walking to the Magic Shop.

Buffy: So Giles and I worked out a whole schedule around school. A block of time every day to just focus on my new Slayer training.
Willow: That’s a work ethic. Buffy, you’re developing a work ethic.
Buffy: Oh, no… Do they make an ointment for that?

Willow: People got to respect a solid work ethic. Look at you… motivated Buffy eager to soak up learning. You and I are going to have so much fun this semester.
Buffy: Yeah, that reminds me. With the whole new training schedule… I kinda had to drop a class.
Willow: That’s understandable. Your slayer studies are way more important.
Buffy: So I won’t be taking drama with you.
Willow: What? You have to. You promised.
Buffy: I know, but Giles said that it just was--

Willow: The hell with Giles.
Giles: I can hear you, Willow.
Willow: Drama is just Tuesday and Thursday afternoons. You can blow off training Tuesday and Thursday afternoons, can’t you?
Buffy: What happened to “people gotta respect a good work ethic?”
Willow: Other people, not me. There’s a whole “best friend” loophole.

“Restless” was but two episodes ago, and so Willow's discussion of drama class came to mind. In the dream, the drama class for Willow reinforced the idea that she would later lie, act, and be deceitful towards her friends when her magic starts to get out of hand.

Now… when Buffy tells Willow that she doesn’t have time to take Drama (She doesn’t have TIME to pretend like it's nothing when Willow’s increases her dangerous magic), Willow is immediately defensive and hurt and actually states, “There’s a whole ‘best friend’ loophole.” It’s almost as if she’s stating for later, “I know it appears to everyone else that my magic is getting out of hand, but you, Buffy, are my best friend and are suppose to take my side.”

Coincidence? Perhaps. However, the gang is walking TOWARDS a Magic Shop where Willow had backordered more magic supplies. Tara is in the back (not in the conversation) much like her character did not have much of a say when Willow first started getting out of control with her magic. Tara was sort of oblivious when Willow got secret supplies (deer blood) for bringing Buffy back to life. The person that seems to notice Willow’s magic issues first is Giles. So what does Willow say when Buffy states that she can’t take drama because she doesn’t have time? Willow- The hell with Giles…

Maybe, I'm reading too much into the lines, but I found it very foreshadowing, and it all seemed to fit together.

10.Tony   Aug 6 2008
I don't know how you didn't enjoy the Harmony scenes. I loved them as much as I love that character. And when you say that she can't hold an episode by herself, have you seen her two episodes on angel where she's the main focus. Awsome.
Also, I love the scene where Harmony explains how they aren't going to kill Dawn, but all the vampires tell her that it won't matter if they keep her alive or not and how they should kill her. But Harmony still refuses. Just plays with the whole supervillian cliche on how it makes no sense why they do that.
Annd, was that the actor who played Andrew as a vamp? I thought that too and you mentioned above the Andrew Vamp.

11.Paula   Oct 2 2008
The whole Spike/Harmony talk pretty much cracks me up. "You look good." "I feel good." "I remember." Hahaha. Spike really gets away with the most outrageous lines (and tones of voice to go with them for that matter).

One thing I'm surprised at no one ever mentioning is that the opening scene with Buffy and Giles at the gym and Dawn breaking her concentration is a blatantly obvious nod at Star Wars (the old trilogy). This scene so close to one of the Luke/Yoda training scenes in [i]Empire Strikes Back[/i] that just about the only thing missing is Buffy making things move with her mind.

12.Paula   Oct 11 2008
I just realized that in addition to all the other things that gym scene has with the training scene in The Empire Strikes Back, Luke Skywalker and Buffy are also both distracted by their sister! :-)

13.Paula   Oct 12 2008
...has in common with...

*eyeroll* Sorry about my English from time to time.


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